Category Archives: relationships
He is a platonic friend that I talked to occasionally. While eating he complained about how the women were causing him to slip and have premarital sex, when he was desperately trying to be celibate. He wanted to know what was wrong with women that they would get so attached to him so quickly.
In his eyes, he was an innocent bystander that was being manipulated into sex. Since he wasn’t the aggressive party, he figures that it isn’t necessary to continue with any sort of relationship after sex.
He talked about being a religious, spiritually upstanding man. That he has the gift to see people for who they really are inside. And how he wants a God-fearing woman to be his wife. He quotes scripture often during general conversation and talks so much about commitment, love and monogamy. Sounds great, right?
This is the same man that complained that women come into relationship with their defenses up and it doesn’t give him a chance to get to know them for who they really are (even though he has that special gift I mentioned earlier). Apparently I fall into the category of a woman with her defenses up…. which is why he believes that I am still single). Of course when the woman’s defenses are down, because they believe that he is an honest, sincere, christian man, he has sex with them and then looses interest. I won’t be letting my defenses down any time soon.
It makes me wonder how many other men are using the church and the bible as a way to bed the ladies?